Connection is for every body
This dick diaries is going onto the blog so that people can see it if they are worried or feeling self consious, and trying to pluck up the courage to visit a provider..It's really not that big of a deal, truly. As sexworkers, we are fairly adaptable and not easily surprised, but i do encourage you to be upfront about any needs you have, so you can
be supported thruout the nerves and excitement; as it's also noteworthy that many providers themselves have chronic illnesses / (its a job many of us can sustain as it doesnt require a 40 hr work week in a shop or office ect...) so good idea just to check if the SW you are wanting to visit is a good fit for seeing someone with a disability or not, and if they have accessability at their incall.
In fact, a GREAT idea if you have any kind of a special need physically, or mentally, is to start is a not for profit called Touching base, they can help you navigate the waters of finding someone with the right skillset or support for you, in your area.
There is also a documentary called SCARLET ROAD which is superrrrr interesting and follows along with a very clever woman callled Rachel Wotton who founded touching base. Highly inspirational. You can find the links to watch that doco on the Touching base website also.
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Chewsday 19 May.
Morning Massive titVI lovers!
Last night i had the pleasure of meeting such a lovely person 🥰
He had never seen a bbw before, and that often scares me a bit, cos i am at the super sized end of the bbw scale.... but we had a BLAST!
the old jelly beanb (mind) health has been suffering a bit this year... The weight gain of the narcolepsy drugs 😭is embarrassing. I'm lacking purpose. Money is tight.
So while i was showering for that booking, i mentally challenged the hooker goddesses to along something good or inspirational,and that will bring me out of this grouching.
And they did.
Unbeknownst beforehand,This client last night had a disability. And i say that only for context, not for clout. Because his disability was the least interesting thing about his beautiful self. And yet,he was there showing up for life;and new experiences; super friendly, and positive. now THAT i can get on board with!
So i upgraded his booking and gave Mr Wordle allllll the snuggles and hugs and loVIng. Which is absolutely one of the great things about running ones own small buisness,.. the ability to be flexible whenn someone needs what i have in abundance.
(good energy and awesome hugs)
Be kind today my loves, you truly never know what someone else is going thru.
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